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What is Sexual
Assault ?
Sexual assault
is any unwanted sexual act. This includes a range of unwanted or
forced sexual behaviour including rape.
Perpetrators of
sexual assault use power, force and manipulation to attempt to
control the body sensed and emotions of their victims.
Sexual Assault
is a crime.
It is an act of
violence. It is not about love and affection. Sexual assault and/or
rape include when someone:
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forces you
to participate in, or watch pornography,
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forces,
manipulates or coerces you into having sexual intercourse, or
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shows you
any unwanted sexual attention that makes you feel uncomfortable
or scared.
Sexual
Harassment is any form of unwanted, unwelcome or uninvited
sexual behaviour, which is or might be offensive, humiliation,
intimidating or embarrassing. Sexual harassment takes many forms,
including wolf whistles, leering, sexual innuendo, comments or other
unwanted sexual attention.
Rape/sexual
assault is defined as penetration of the vagina or anus with the
penis, other body part or foreign object without consent. It also
includes forced oral sex.
Ritual abuse or R.A.
-organised and systematic violence including physical, emotional,
psychological, spiritual and sexual abuse. Specific rituals take
place in a cycle of annual dates. Victim’s birthdays, religious and
other holidays, and full moons are common, though groups widely
differ. There is little discrepancy, however, in the horror and pain
inflicted.
Perpetrators seek
total power and control over children and captive adults. Drugs,
trickery, dissociation, programming, ritual work and torture, - are
used by abusers to confuse, terrorise and control women and
children.
Abuse, often features
traumatic elements that seem “bizarre”. This is deliberately done
for a number of reasons; to make survivors doubt their memories;
question their sanity and to generate scepticism or outright
rejection of R.A. The more crazy or unreal it seems, the less likely
we, as survivors are to believe these things happened to us and the
more likely perpetrators are to be undetected.
Marriage/Defacto
rape is when a regular partner pressures or forces their partner
into having sex. This is still rape, even though the other person is
a spouse or regular sex partner.
Date/Acquaintance rape. Date rape is when a person you are
dating sexually assaults you. You may be in an ongoing relationship,
or it may be someone you have dated only once or twice. Acquaintance
rape is when a friend or someone you have met, but don't know very
well, sexually assaults you.
Child sexual
assault is any act of a sexual nature towards a child by someone
older than the child or in a position of power.
Incest is
sexual assault by a family member. This may be a parent, sibling,
step-parent, uncle or any other family member.
Consent.
Consenting to any sexual act depends on a person's ability to
understand what the sexual act is, the implications of the sexual
behaviour, and on their ability to make an informed choice, without
force, manipulation or coercion, about whether or not they want the
sexual act to occur.
The age of
consent for most sexual activity in Tasmania is 17 years of age.
Children do not
have the ability to consent to any sexual act, as they do not
understand the implications of a sexual relationship.
A persons
ability to consent regardless of the relationship, is dependent on a
number of factors including their level of cognitive ability and
whether they are under the influence of alcohol, drugs or prescribed
medication.
Sexual assault
occurs when someone commits a sexual act with or towards another
person without their consent.
Sometimes people
agree to a sexual act because they are frightened - this is not
consent.
Sexual assault
of children is damaging; the effects of being sexually assaulted can
last a lifetime.
There are many
myths surrounding sexual assault. These myths serve to deny the
reality of sexual assault, diminish the effects of sexual assault,
blame the victims, and protect the offender by implying that they
are not responsible for their abusive actions or behaviours.
Who
does sexual assault happen to?
Sexual assault can happen to anyone. It happens to babies, children,
adolescents, adults, males and females, young and old.
It also happens to people from varying
cultural backgrounds and religions, not subject to ability, and
regardless of sexual orientation.
Who are the
perpetrators?
Perpetrators can be known (eg friends, family) or unknown; persons
of any age. Perpetrators of sexual assault include both men and
women .
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